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The drums are the foundation that the rest of the band stands on top of. The whole band relies on the drums. The rest of the band has to deal with ideas outside of the realm of rhythm (melody and harmony). The drums get to concentrate solely on rhythm, and that is incredibly freeing.
You could enjoy the freedom of the drums. Start today, and don't give up. You've got this: believe in yourself.